Rest Vows

I promise to be fully human with you in a world that asks us to optimize everything. I will not measure our love by productivity, milestones, or how polished our life appears. I will protect time for rest, unplanned joy, difficult conversations, and the slow work of knowing each other as we change. I promise to ask for help, share decisions, and treat care as something we practice rather than something either of us owes alone. Together, we will build a life that is useful when needed, spacious when possible, and always our own.