In the age of ChatGPT and AI writing assistants, a new question has emerged for couples: Is it cheating to use AI to write my vows?
The answer: No, but it shouldn't do ALL the work.
Think of AI as a collaborator, not a ghostwriter. It can help you organize your thoughts, but it can't feel your emotions.
The Pros of AI Vows
- Beating Writer's Block: AI is excellent at giving you a structure when you're staring at a blank page.
- Finding Synonyms: If you keep using the word "love" and want variation, AI can suggest "adore," "cherish," or "treasure."
- Polishing Grammar: It works great as a final spell-checker.
The Cons (and Dangers)
- Generic Phrasing: AI tends to use clichés like "you are my rock" or "partners in crime" excessively.
- Lack of Specificity: AI doesn't know about that time you got lost in Tokyo or how your partner takes their coffee.
- Robotic Tone: If you don't edit the output, it will sound like a corporate press release, not a love letter.
How to Use AI Correctly
Do not ask: "Write me wedding vows."
Instead, ask: "I want to write vows that mention my partner's kindness and our love for hiking. Can you give me an outline?"
The Golden Rule
Use AI to generate the skeleton, but you must add the heart. Always rewrite the output in your own voice.
Want to try it yourself? Our AI Wedding Vow Generator is coming soon.